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Abner

Portrait of Abner

Abner served as the commander of King Saul's army and, following Saul's death, backed his son Ish-bosheth's claim to the throne of Israel in opposition to David, who ruled only Judah. After years of civil war between the rival houses, Abner negotiated a defection to David that promised to unite the twelve tribes under one king. Joab, David's army commander, then murdered Abner in revenge for the earlier battlefield death of his brother Asahel, an act David publicly condemned through mourning and fasting to distance himself from the violence. This episode in 2 Samuel highlights the fragile transfer of power from Saul's line to David's and demonstrates how personal vendettas threatened the establishment of a unified monarchy under God's chosen ruler.

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Biography

Died
c. 1005 BC, Hebron (murdered by Joab)
Occupation
Commander of Saul's Army
Tribe
Benjamin
Father
Ner
Era
United Kingdom
Nationality
Israelite

Family

Parents
Ner
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Abner
Old Testament United Kingdom Warrior 2 Samuel

Did You Know?

1

Abner was Saul's first cousin through their fathers Ner and Kish who were brothers, a detail underscoring how tightly military power remained within Saul's immediate Benjaminite clan during the early monarchy.

2

After slaying Joab's brother Asahel in self-defense at the pool of Gibeon, Abner warned Joab that continued fighting would only strengthen the Philistines, revealing his strategic concern for Israel's broader survival amid civil war.

3

Abner's break with Ish-bosheth occurred when the king accused him of having relations with Saul's concubine Rizpah, an allegation that publicly undermined Abner's authority and prompted his secret negotiations with David.

4

Before his death Abner had already secured pledges of loyalty from the northern tribes' elders and specifically addressed the reluctant Benjaminites, showing he wielded decisive political leverage in transferring the kingdom to David.

5

David's elaborate public mourning for Abner, including a fast and poetic lament that explicitly condemned Joab, served both to honor a fallen rival and to signal to Saul's followers that the assassination had not been sanctioned by the future king.

Key Passages

Abner Supports Ish-bosheth

2 Samuel 2:8-11

This passage shows how personal loyalties can delay God's plans, yet His promise to establish David still prevails.

B8ut Abner the son of Ner, captain of Saulโ€™s host, took Ishbosheth the son of Saul, and brought him over to Mahanaim;

9 And made him king over Gilead, and over the Ashurites, and over Jezreel, and over Ephraim, and over Benjamin, and over all Israel. 10 Ishbosheth Saulโ€™s son was forty years old when he began to reign over Israel, and reigned two years. But the house of Judah followed David. 11 And the time that David was king in Hebron over the house of Judah was seven years and six months.

Read full chapter: 2 Samuel 2 โ†’

Abner Defects to David

2 Samuel 3:12-21

This passage reveals how God sovereignly turns former rivals into allies, steadily advancing His promise to establish David as king over a united Israel.

A12nd Abner sent messengers to David on his behalf, saying, Whose is the land? saying also, Make thy league with me, and, behold, my hand shall be with thee, to bring about all Israel unto thee.

13 And he said, Well; I will make a league with thee: but one thing I require of thee, that is, Thou shalt not see my face, except thou first bring Michal Saulโ€™s daughter, when thou comest to see my face. 14 And David sent messengers to Ishbosheth Saulโ€™s son, saying, Deliver me my wife Michal, which I espoused to me for an hundred foreskins of the Philistines. 15 And Ishbosheth sent, and took her from her husband, even from Phaltiel the son of Laish. 16 And her husband went with her along weeping behind her to Bahurim. Then said Abner unto him, Go, return. And he returned. 17 And Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, Ye sought for David in times past to be king over you: 18 Now then do it: for the LORD hath spoken of David, saying, By the hand of my servant David I will save my people Israel out of the hand of the Philistines, and out of the hand of all their enemies. 19 And Abner also spake in the ears of Benjamin: and Abner went also to speak in the ears of David in Hebron all that seemed good to Israel, and that seemed good to the whole house of Benjamin. 20 So Abner came to David to Hebron, and twenty men with him. And David made Abner and the men that were with him a feast. 21 And Abner said unto David, I will arise and go, and will gather all Israel unto my lord the king, that they may make a league with thee, and that thou mayest reign over all that thine heart desireth. And David sent Abner away; and he went in peace.

Read full chapter: 2 Samuel 3 โ†’

Joab Kills Abner

2 Samuel 3:27-30

This passage reveals how revenge breeds more tragedy, urging us to release bitterness and pursue the reconciliation God desires.

A27nd when Abner was returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside in the gate to speak with him quietly, and smote him there under the fifth rib, that he died, for the blood of Asahel his brother.

28 And afterward when David heard it, he said, I and my kingdom are guiltless before the LORD for ever from the blood of Abner the son of Ner: 29 Let it rest on the head of Joab, and on all his fatherโ€™s house; and let there not fail from the house of Joab one that hath an issue, or that is a leper, or that leaneth on a staff, or that falleth on the sword, or that lacketh bread. 30 So Joab and Abishai his brother slew Abner, because he had slain their brother Asahel at Gibeon in the battle.

Read full chapter: 2 Samuel 3 โ†’