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Amnon

Portrait of Amnon

Amnon was the firstborn son of King David by Ahinoam the Jezreelite. He raped his half-sister Tamar after luring her to his quarters under false pretenses of illness, then rejected her and sent her away in disgrace. Two years later Tamarโ€™s full brother Absalom murdered Amnon at a sheep-shearing feast in Baal Hazor, carrying out long-planned revenge. The episode, narrated in 2 Samuel 13, illustrates the outworking of Nathanโ€™s prophecy that the sword would never depart from Davidโ€™s house and demonstrates how one act of sexual violence triggered cycles of retaliation that destabilized the royal family.

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Biography

Died
c. 983 BC, Baal-Hazor (killed by Absalom's servants)
Occupation
Prince
Tribe
Judah
Father
David
Mother
Ahinoam
Era
United Kingdom
Nationality
Israelite

Family

Parents
David Ahinoam
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Amnon
Old Testament United Kingdom Villain 2 Samuel

Did You Know?

1

Amnon consulted his shrewd cousin Jonadab, son of David's brother Shimeah, whose detailed scheme to feign illness and request Tamar's care exploited ancient expectations of familial duty to gain private access.

2

After the assault, Amnon immediately ordered Tamar removed by a servant, a public shaming that disregarded Near Eastern customs requiring a violator to either marry or compensate the victim and her family.

3

As firstborn son and presumptive heir during the early United Monarchy, Amnon received no recorded punishment from David, highlighting the fragile legal structures before the full codification of Deuteronomic kingship laws.

4

Absalom delayed his revenge for exactly two years, using the intervening time to acquire property at Baal Hazor and host a royal sheep-shearing feast that masked the planned assassination.

5

Amnon was slain while intoxicated at the feast, when Absalom's servants struck him on command, an act that initiated the chain of events leading to Absalom's own rebellion against David.

Key Passages

Amnon and Tamar

2 Samuel 13:1-19

This passage reveals how unchecked lust destroys lives and families, urging us to guard our hearts and treat others with genuine respect.

A1nd it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.

2 And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do anything to her. 3 But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah Davidโ€™s brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man. 4 And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the kingโ€™s son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalomโ€™s sister. 5 And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand. 6 So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand. 7 Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnonโ€™s house, and dress him meat. 8 So Tamar went to her brother Amnonโ€™s house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes. 9 And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him. 10 And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother. 11 And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. 12 And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. 13 And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee. 14 Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. 15 Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. 16 And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her. 17 Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her. 18 And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the kingโ€™s daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her. 19 And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying.

Read full chapter: 2 Samuel 13 โ†’

Absalom Kills Amnon

2 Samuel 13:28-33

This passage shows how unchecked sin and revenge destroy families, urging us to seek God's justice and healing instead.

N28ow Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnonโ€™s heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant.

29 And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the kingโ€™s sons arose, and every man gat him up upon his mule, and fled. 30 And it came to pass, while they were in the way, that tidings came to David, saying, Absalom hath slain all the kingโ€™s sons, and there is not one of them left. 31 Then the king arose, and tare his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent. 32 And Jonadab, the son of Shimeah Davidโ€™s brother, answered and said, Let not my lord suppose that they have slain all the young men the kingโ€™s sons; for Amnon only is dead: for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar. 33 Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the kingโ€™s sons are dead: for Amnon only is dead.

Read full chapter: 2 Samuel 13 โ†’